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I'm sorry that you have a racist father in law, but he would be cut out (a long time ago) Racism should be offensive to every human being of any color not just the people directly subjected to the hatred & ignorance. Your future child (& you) WILL be hurt by his comments & should not be subject to them. You may want to "clean house" before accepting any children of any color-racism & acceptance of it is learned. One thing I keep in mind (when people feel the need to stare at me w/ my bi-racial adopted son) is you can't change other people-you can only control what is in your power & eliminating hatred & bigotry around you is in your power-I wouldn't even allow my 19 year old around him - hopefully she is just as embarrassed having that for a grandfather.
I don't mean for this to sound harsh, but no person should be subject to him or his comments.
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