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Trust
When I was fourteen I found out I was pregnant, I was so frightened that I told no one, not even the father of my baby. When I was seven months my mother found out, but by that time it was to late to make the right decision, now fourteen years later I finally found my son, the one I was pregnant with at fourteen. I lost him to adoption because I didnt tell my mother, and I will live to regret losing him for the rest of my life, if I can give you any advice it is to tell your parents. Sometimes you think that they will not understand, but they will be able to help you make the right decision. A baby is not going to go away, your pregnancy will continue, I am postitive you would rather go through your pregnancy with the support of your family. Becoming pregnant is not a bad thing, you are not a bad person for having sex. Life works in mysterious ways. If you have a hard time finding the words leave her a letter. Do not ever feel that you are bad for becoming pregnant. It is human nature to love, with love sometimes comes sex. this is not wrong. I am sure you are a wonderful young woman. Your mother will understand.
Hugs
Melissa
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