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I had major insecurities about DS's birthparents until our adoption was finalized...actually they started subsiding the more I felt like I WAS his Mom...nothing makes you feel more like Mom than rocking a baby at 3 in the morning or being thrown up on! ;-)
I think that the majority of these feelings will lessen for you as time goes on...though I can't say that there won't always be a little dig into your heart whenever you hear a birthparent call themselves "mom" or "dad" or refer to you DC as "my son" or "my daughter"....but just wait until your DC calls you "momma"...boy will your heart swell then! ;-)
Kat
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Home Study started: 8/6/04
Matched in a Designated Adoption 11/5/04
Adam is due 12/12/04
11/24/04 Update: D is 1.5cm dilated!!! Officially on Phone Watch!
12/2/04 Update: D is 3cm dilated!!! Got the "heads up" call last night! Going to happen today or tomorrow!
UPDATE! Our son was born 12/3/04! 6lb 14.9oz, 20.5"
Adam will be 2 on 12/3/06! 
He's 37 1/2" & 33 1/2lb!!!
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