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Originally Posted by physics junkie
I can tell you one thing--you and your partner will most likely not survive if you have this kid. It will be a lot easier for him to deny your child's existence than it will be for you. Don't expect any comfort from him if he's mad at this child already...much less when you start showing. He will probably resent taking you for pre-natal care, etc. I don't mean to sound harsh--just giving a guy's opinion.
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Wrong. That's a generalization and maybe your opinion but certainly not the case for everyone. We have quite a few members here who have remained in a long term relationship with the father of the child post-placement. Heck, my favorite pair just got married last year.
Let's keep stereotypes and generalizations to a minimum. If it's your own opinion, state that YOU wouldn't stay with the woman. Don't speak for the entire male gender.