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My personal opinion is that your children are too young to allow you to focus on your new family addition.
The child you are adopting will be overwhelmed to begin with, but to toss young siblings into the mix? I personally would not do it.
However, that said, that's me. Maybe you are bringing your husband and mother to help with the kids, I don't know...I just don't think that going to China to adopt a child is like having your children visit you in the hospital after having a baby.
Best of luck to you on whatever you decide. I'm positive it will be the right decision for your family.
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Doreen,
SAHM
C&D, b/g twins b. 1/23/02
Kristen  b. 7/12/84 d. 11/7/04
James b. 3/4/01, g. 2/23/07 g(home) 3/1/07
Signed w/agency 9/11/06
1st trip to Stavropol, 10/22/06-10/29/06
Dossier complete and sent to agency 12/1/06
Court date assigned! 02/12 & 02/13/07
Got custody on 2/23/07
James arrived home on 3/1/07!
Family finally re-united all under 1 roof on 3/5/07!!!!
Blog of adoption/life journey... http://doreenat.blogspot.com/
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