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I am not saying she doesn't have a right to her emotions. What she doesn't have a right to do is put them off on me and make me feel guilty every time I see her. I understand her pain is real and that I cannot possibly imagine what it's like, but I did not cause it. She is responsible for her actions. What I meant was that she needs to put this attitude behind her if she wants to maintain a relationship with me and my son. I know she will never truly get over it, but if she can't manage it enough to be decent to me then I won't be dealing with her anymore, sisters or not. If a simple thank you is all it takes to make that happen then I am willing to do that, but it will not be an ongoing thing every time I see her. And I certainly agree that if she were more mature about this, she would see that me raising him the best I can should be all the thanks she needs.
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