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I am so sorry Flops! I can't even imagine how difficult this is for you. I second lmvsmom's suggestion of a professional evalutation, by someone who has experience with adopted children. Their adoption may be completely unrelated, but you may have a great point about something in their past triggering their behaviors.

What is the consequece of these behaviors? I know you have had problems with the car seats for a while. Is there possibility of another day care situation? I know it is hard to control what kids pick up/say but a daycare situation where this language is being used regularly, would concern me too.

You and your boys will be in my prayers!