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Ok...dime store psychology here...
I sincerely doubt that is what her issue is. My guess is she is having troubles dealing with everything because it's darn hard and painful...it's easier to put the blame on someone else...
As adoptive parents, we cannot live our lives being grateful...we have to be normal too. Adoption and our gratitude do not have to be an ever-present thing..
I am very grateful to my sons birthmother....she has also expressed her gratitude to me...this is a two way street.
I hope your sister has looked into councelling...it seems she is putting alot of her sorrow on you.
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Leigh
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