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Heather:
I guess my first question would be 'what specifically is bothering you...which issues in adoption and the transracial part are of concern?'
I ask this, because some of these may just be 'the jitters'......but others may be that gut reaction that's really saying, "You really shouldn't do this right now until you feel more at peace about it."
I've been torn before, but it was more because of our previous experiences that brought about the anxiety---or anything close to it. But, I've also been in the position where I was really physically sick to consider 'going through with it'. THAT kind of reaction from me, is when I know, 'Ought oh! This is something we shouldn't even consider....'
Hope this helps. Feel free to pm me if you'd rather....
Sincerely,
Linny
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