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Gwenn
I just wanted to mention...just because you are having a private adoption does not mean you will be at the birth. Most of my adoptive parent friends were not in the delivery room. That is completely up to the pbmom.
Some pbmom's feel it is too personal of a moment to have other people there. Also, some feel it places extra pressure on them to place.
Even if a pbmom says she may want you there...she may change her mind at the time.
I just hope you are prepared for that.
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Leigh
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