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Gwenn - I am so sorry this is happening. It is SO difficult to turn down a situation, even when things seem to be pointing that way to an obvious conclusion.
When we were wavering on a possible match in which the birthfather changed his mind and decided to fight for his children after initially being ready to sign, we were so torn! But afterward, I truly felt at peace with the way things turned out, because I had absolute faith that our perfect child was out there somewhere and would be sent to us at just the right time. (And that is exactly what happened about a month later!)
I hope this happens quickly for you!
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QUOTE: "Just like a woman who gives birth forgets the pain due to the overwhelming joy when she holds the baby, an adoptive mom also experiences that same joy when she holds her child for the first time." - Kat-L, forum member
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