[Guitarmom]

We have some friends who just got a sibling placement - the plan is adoption,but there is no TPR yet - there is a strong case against bparents,though- so it's likely. Anyway - everyone in our 4H club had a HUGE shower about a month after they brought the kids home. Partly because they hadn't had babies in the house for 18 yrs.. and getting 2 under age 2 with little notice was quite a shocker.
But now my friend has been asking me to write up a wishlist for when we get our kids (age 2 and 4) - also foster ,with plan to adopt -TPR set for Feb.07. Now I totally dont' expect a shower or anything - and our kids won't be babies at all... I really don't want everyone to put up a big fuss, I'm a lowkey kind of person. I also would hate to have a big party and for some strange reason the kids ended up going back to bparents.

Did anyone have friends /family throw a party when you got a foster/adopt placement?