[dragonfly1234]

We found that date night was very important for us. With a 6 and 2 year old it makes it tough. I am a SAHM so we don't have a lot of money to go to dinner and theater like we did pre-children. We save up and go out about every 3 months. However, we just started our Friday night watch a dvd and cuddle on the sofa. We make sure the kids go to bed early and we have our time. But many times one or both of us fall asleep because we are tired...lol

You will find a balance emster...its taken us 6 years to get things going without the getting mad at eachother and the miss communication or lack of communication. I learned that I had to work harder at it since he works all day and I stay home. Everyone is different on how to deal with day to day stress.

Michelle