[amlee]

This has come as quite a shock to me. I am in a serious commited relationship. We have been freinds for years and dating a year and a half. We moved here to NYC 8 months ago and this seems a bit untimely. I can not bring a child into a life that is still not matured and emotionally prepared. I am 23. I still have so much preparation to do until I am ready to raise a child. I had an abortion when I was 18 and I honestly dont think I can do that again. I walked out of an abortion clinic earlier this afternoon. I am 4 weeks and 3 days. I decided to look into Adoption for the next few weeks to decide between the two.

Please give me some advice.