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I have just recently found my birthmom and also a half sister and believe it or not they live 40miles from my house. I am a mother of three and have had many of the same questions that you have. May I offer a few suggestions. First your life is not fake it is excatly the way that GOD designed it to be and you are living out his destiny for you. Second, at 18 or 19 I was in NO way ready to do the search or find out anything even though I would have told you that I was. Third my birthmom also made the comment that had I looked for her when I was that young she maynot have been willing to reunite with me being that young. I too have a great adoptive family amd my mom and dad are my mom and dad and meeting my adoptive mom made that even more clear to me in my mind and my heart. My birthmom and I are good friends, but she is NOT my mommy. Think clearly with your head and try not to let your emotions drive the search. Wait until you are really secure, happy and have a clear understanding that a reunion will change who you are or what your life has been. GOod luck with everything.
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