[marigold]

Oh how I know what your foster daughter feels. I too was a hairy young girl. I had one eyebrow a faint mustache and lots of thick hair on my arms. THis was not to long after the movie Harry and the Hendersons (about a big foot) So my name became Harry also. It was rough for a while but my mom decided to let me shave my legs and my arm pits and when I was twelve I started having my eyebrows and lip waxed. I would just talk to her if it isn't a problem for her than let it go for a while, if she notices the hair then it bothers her. It makes you stand out and that is never fun at that age! It isn't expensive to by a home waxing kit and I don't think she is too young if it is her decision. (Just tell her it gets better once the hormones even out!!)