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Thanks for the feedback!
We are still planning to adopt a child that's in age between our two boys. I(we) have no illusions about this one going as smooth as the other two, but, we will prepare as best as we can, expect the worst and then be happy if things turn out okay.
Once/if we get our new child, I think I will make sure to treat her like a young toddler who can't be left alone. At least until I can be sure that the little one won't get hurt.
Watching for attachment/bonding issues is a given.
I really want to do this, because I feel that there is another child somewhere out there who needs me. Ok, maybe I am overly sentimental, but, on the other hand, I'm doing my homework. I'm studying up a lot on attachment issues. I started reading a book called "Attachment in Adoption" by Deborah Gray and am waiting for another one "Parenting the Hurt Child".
Isn't it better for a child to have a Mom and Dad that offer a good home and stability than not having a family?
We have room in our hearts, in our home, so, whatever will be, will be.
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