[lahdh4]

I hate them as well and that is something that my therapist and I are working on. I only remember my moms reaction to when my brothers girfriend (now wife) was pregnant and they told her. I think because of her reaction I don't want to tell anyone in my family. Funny thing is J's bdad's family (most of them that I know personally) do know about J. B told them one night when he was having a hard time about it but he doesn't want me to send them pictures.