[dswaak]

We're not home yet, but should be late next week or even the week of Thanksgiving. We've decided to skip Thanksgiving this year and everyone will just have to deal with it. My grandparents' house is overwhelming for adults to deal with when they're new to the situation much less our son!

I plan on playing a lot of the visiting by ear though - just going to try and gauge how he seems to be doing. And even if people come to visit - we don't have to play "pass the baby" either.

My thoughts are that if people don't get it or get a little offended, too bad. Another couple of weeks isn't going to kill them, we'll have him for the rest of our lives. Besides - we had to wait an awfully long time and we're the parents!

Good luck!