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I think the big thing is, no matter how much you want to help and support her...you have to take a step back.
You can offer your support and help (both physically and emotionally) but you cannot make her accept it..no matter how much you think she may desperately need it.
This is definitely going to be very hard on her....but I feel I need to prepare you for what this is going to be like for you.
The hopital experience is very emotional as a paparent. Things are so up in the air....we don't really know what is expected of us...and we really don't know how things will work out in the end.
It is really important that you keep in mind that you are a guest at the hospital. This is her time, her delivery, her recovery and her baby...I know that can be SO hard, but really you must keep it in mind..
I think the smartest thing you can do, is to discuss this with the pbmom now. Get a feel for what she wants of you...but also keep in mind plans may fly out the window once it becomes reality. But at least that gives you both an idea of what the other is thinking.
good luck, this is so hard...but so worth it.
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Leigh
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