This is just all so confusing. I don't understand why the adoption part has changed for the boys, and I surely can't explain it to them! They have both been overly clingy all weekend. I sat between the boys in church this morning and they both had to hold my hand or be touching me all through the service. They are not vocalizing their fears right now, but you can definately tell by their actions that they are scared about what's going to happen to them. We are of course assuring them they are not going to go anywhere, and they are a part of our family, but DH and I still have questions in our mind as to WHY dhr pulled the plug on their adoption.
I do have a good relationship with the GAL for the kids and I will try to get in touch with him soon. I'm thinking of setting up an appointment for the boys and just let them go and ask him their questions and tell him what they've been telling us! Then HE can go to bat on their behalf with DHR.....
MomInAL
Married to DH 20 years 11/29!
BD 19, BD 17, FS 11, FS 10 (siblings - still hoping to adopt!!)