We, too, are planning to adopt out of birth order.
If you had asked me 5 years ago, I would have said "no way". However, our oldest is almost 9, and our babe just turned 2.
Having a child between the two would make it more natural. Because of the age difference between my children, I am always getting comments like, "boy, I bet the baby was a surprise". They just automatically assume that he was an "ooops". He was a surprise, a beautiful surprise.
So, I guess I am looking for feedback too.
Thanks,
