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Oh yes, tantrums! My son started at 1.5 and had them until he was about 4 or so. Aren't they just a joy!? Well, my son would not be held during a tantrum--it would make it worse! So the holding and rocking advice I tossed out the window. sometimes I would just sit next to him and attempt to soothe him...not always successful. I did find a book that helped...The happiest toddler on the block. (can't remember the author..Harvey?) and also a book called positive discipline--not much on discipline, but lots of good ideas on giving choices. Just remember that this too shall pass! Be thankful he is so determined and strong-willed...it will be great later in life. Of course, my neighbor just walked out of the room when her son tantrumed, but that again only made it worse for my son. I think as my son was better able to express himself the tantrums began to go away! Hurray!
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