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1. That my daughter is my real daughter, my own daughter and I love her as much as you love your birth children
2. That adoption is not a second choice or second best, its just a different way to form a family. Please don't assume I'm mourning infertility or just dying to have a biological child.
3. That I did not buy my child and (sort of a part B) that one kind of adoption is not any better or worse than another kind. I think its really great that you adopted from China or Illinois, my daughter happened to be in Kazakhstan, isn't adoption wonderful? And YES, she's very healthy (sorry couldn't resist).
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