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You can have adoption in your heart and yet never adopt. I always wanted to adopt a child from the time I was about 10. DH and I have yet to receive our referral and when I was told I should never get pregnant, my heart broke into a thousand pieces. The day my nephew was born was one of the saddest days of my life and I felt so empty, as if I could never feel love. However, I am now over the moon with my nephew. I think the sun rises and sets on him. Sometimes things happen that were always meant to but sometimes things don't too. I guess all I did was mangle your question and just raise doubt than answers. I guess it's just up to each person/couple/family.
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