[daynesmom]

Natalie,
I feel the same way. I am also 31 years old and dh and I have been trying for 4 1/2 very long years! After 2 failed invitro, and 1 that resulted in a stillborn, it seems hopeless at times. But you have to remember that that child is yours and waiting to come home to you to be loved and to love you back. It doesn't matter how the children enter your life, the end result is the same. This is what I keep telling myself when I feel like I can't go on and want to give up.
I hope some of my words help you. Just take one day at a time and don't lose faith.