we never specified gender either. first ababy was a boy, seconf sib set, a girl & a boy. i will tell you the girl is by far the hardest to raise. but the truth is i don't think it's because she is a girl. i think it's because of things that happened to her before she came to be mine. AND the things that happened to her was because she was a girl. confusing, but do you understand what i mean. her brother didn't have the same abuse because he is a boy. we are matched again, but don't know the gender of the baby yet. it really doesn't matter. it is a child.
