Don't Worry
hi,
I'm afraid I won't be much help because my adoptive parents and I met by chance. They had not even started the process but the father had mentioned to a friend who had adopted that he would like to talk to her about adopting. This friend heard about me and put us in contact.
I do agree with Lisa that the intitial meeting is usually the most important part, and from what I hear, both the potential birthparent and potential adoptive parents feel the connection. I also agree with Lisa that it is important to make sure your potential birthparent recieves excellent pre and post placement counseling, no matter how good it seems.
I did place my daughter with a family from a different culture. My daughter's birthfather requested that the adoptive parents acknowledge his culture in certain ways and they agreed. I do practice the same religion as my daughter's parents, but this was not a factor in my decision.
Every potential birthparent will be different, but it sounds like you have many great qualities. Be patient and I'm sure you will realize your dream.
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