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Bottom line, that cw is not raising the child. You and your family are. Try to feel no guilt and, although you may think it's easy for me to say, try to get some sleep through all of this, please do. You will need yourself saved for when the right placement does come to you. We have taken some situations others may not have because they "felt right" and, by the way, HAVE been right for us as a family. I can't explain it. You know when it's right. Try to find peace in your decisions. Trust yourself. Agencies do lots of things for lots of reasons. Families need to be able to survive in the long run. It sounds like you really are quite open-minded, just waiting for the situation that sounds right for you. Sending a hug.
Josie
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