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Patti,
you husband being deceased has everything to do with it. Doesn't that stink. If he were alive, that information would not be released. WHen I contacted my adoption agency, they found her. I had submitted all the information to Mary, my bmother had not registered. The adoption agency said I could check back every so many years to see if she was deceased, upon one of being deceased the information could then be released. So if I was dead she could get access, and visa versa. Everyone could get the information if one party is deceased. Isn't that just insane. I am sorry about your husband's passing. I can relate. I was born in 1965, my husband was born in 1963. He also passed away in 1999. We had three children 11, 9 and 1.
Do you have any relationship with with your husband's biological family? It must be very bittersweet to have the answers he could never have. You are in my thoughts.
Carolyn
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Carolyn
"And now I’m glad I didn’t know
The way it all would end, the way it all would go.
Our lives are better left to chance. I could have missed the pain
But I’d of had to miss the dance"
-The Dance by Garth Brooks
*memory of C. Scott Padget, III
"But it's all right now, I learned my lesson well.
You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself
-Garden Party by Ricky Nelson
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