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Starr.... I'm not sure how it would work for a citizen of South Africa.... I would think that you would need to check into the adoption laws of South Africa.... I know as US citizens, (at least stationed overseas with US Govt) we fall under laws of our 'home of record' states.
For Meaton....
In the early stages of our adoption, we contemplated going the US Domestic route. We were told by a DCFS social worker in PA, that we would be able to adopt through foster care (we had a child in mind)... even while stationed overseas. I'm not sure about private agencies.... I think it is best to call around, or email them directly for information. I can't see why they WOULDN'T work with you!
You will need to have a home study done.... We used an independent licensed social worker to do ours in Germany.... (Let me know if you would like more info) We found out, that some agencies will accept this, and some will not.... So before you start your home study, be sure to check with the agency you intend to use.
Good Luck to both of you!