[Sandy_in_BC]

Hi, I'm new to this site. In 1995 we adopted Sergei, a 7 year old from Novosibirsk, Russia (Siberia). He was so cute, very charming, etc. We had two girls at home 9 and 4. Through the years, he was diagnosed with Severe Attachment Disorder and FAS. He turned 13 and decided that he would go to the Ministry of Social Services (this is Canada) and we got a social worker who didn't have children of her own, and was basically so nasty, etc. that he told our son that he could do what he wanted (make his own choices). Well, he decided to run away and we continually chased and fought for him to come home. He is now into drugs and living apart from us since that time. He's turning 19 next month and it's been really tugging at me. We have no contact with him. We know where he is but that's it. Am I ever going to heal