[Casey677]

Please, acknowledge the fact that this is a definite loss. We had three failed tries before our daughter was born. Of the three, the hardest was definitely the one where we had the baby in our arms for three days. Many people pretended like it had never happened. But it did, for three days he was our son. He will be two tomorrow and it still hurts. Yes, I know everything happens for a reason. Yes, I know that I probably would not have my daughter if his adoption had gone through. But that doesn't ease the pain of losing him. And it is a huge loss. Just be there for your brother and sil. They are going to need someone to support them.