Hi there, Joshes mom,
I know you don't mean to hurt anyone. But I have to admit when I see some post that the adoptees loyality to aparents is a bad thing, I tend to get upset. As a matter of fact, I also get upset when an adoptive parent posts how their child has no need to search so then they MUST be content with their situation.....so that then that adoptee MUST be "better" then those poor wounded adoptees that need to search. when all of that really is untrue....its all somewhere in the middle.
