[BrandyHagz]

Actually, you will find that the trend in adoption is that a female child is more preferred than a male child, regardless of race...its been that way for decades...I'd venture to say, long before "feminism" was even an issue...

There are a number of threads on the topic throughout the forums – most of which have likely been closed – because as with everything else adoption related, choosing gender is just as much a personal decision as choosing to adopt, everyone has their own comfort level and no one should be judged for deciding what works best in their family.