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Originally Posted by anati
Just another vent. The more I think about it the more I think the father won't agree to adoption but then again he could suprise me. He can be unpredictable. But there is no way he can raise a child himself. So basically he can not consent to adoption, but refuse to raise it himself, therefore forcing me to raise it when I think it would be better off being raised by an adoptive couple. So can't do anything until I know for sure what his intentions are. On one hand since it's early on I'm not in a hurry to let him know on the other hand I want him to know now so I can know what my options are now.
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Honey tell him now but don't assume you know what his response will be. Right now you are kind of jumping to conclusions as to how he will react.
Tell him and then let it sink in and see what his response will be after at least a week or so...
You have so much time to work out what you and he are going to do.
Good luck!