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Old 10-20-2006, 09:07 AM
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Congratulations on your potential match! Just one bit of friendly advice...please refer to the expectant mom as "potential birthmom" or "expectant mother." It's considered offensive to refer to her as "birthmom" until such time as she has relinquished her parental rights.

That being said...just be yourself in the meeting. I remember our first meeting with our daughters' birthmom and, yes, it was awkward and weird and all that, but we also just tried to be our natural selves. She wants to get to know you.

Good luck with your meeting! I hope all works out smoothly for everyone!
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