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{{{{{Anati}}}}} Hang in there. I'm not saying everything is going to turn into a fairy-tale ending. But don't give up hope.
I hope I'm not innundating you with too many "stories", but my friend who recently had her son, the dad was just this real jerk before she got pregnant. Everyone begged her to stay away from him. I was extremely skeptical when she told me they would be raising their child together, and worried. I can't believe it. The guy has done a full 360 in the last year. He got a steady job, he doesn't go out anymore, he just can't wait to get home to see his little guy and his brand new wife. People CAN change, a lot of guys just melt when it's their own little one in their arms.
Either way, I don't mean to give you unwanted advice. I know this time is really difficult for you. Try to relax though......stress is so bad for the baby. Maybe make a list of all the positives in your life right now. Remember that God (or whatever higher power you believe in) loves you, that you won't be given any more than you can handle. "To whom much is given, much will be required".
I do feel for you. But right now, while you're able, before you start having to answer other people's questions, just relax. Try to be at peace with yourself. Remember you are a strong woman with a lot to give whichever way this works out.
And keep venting, we are here for you.
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