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Similar to what someone else posted, our DS (26 mo) had been attaching fairly equally - very strong with me in the beginning couple months, then seemed to be working attachment with DH a month or so after that but then last 2 months has been definitely been preferring mama all the time. Subsequently we have worked on taking turns and have specifically said this to DS - "it's papa's turn to hold you now" or play or read a book, whatever. I've started to notice a slight shift in the past couple weeks and I'm thinking it's due to this and also that DH was home with DS on a recent holiday that I had to work so he took care of him ALL day. He called for mama all day but papa was there for him. As others have said maybe give DH some more opportunities to take care of Viktor for longer periods occassionally.
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#1 - DS:
Signed w/Agency - 8/04
Completed Homestudy - 1/05
Completed Registration set for region - 3/05
Dossier in region "Officially waiting" - 4/05
Happy, bouncing-off-the-wall day (Referral) - 9/7/05
Met our little love (Trip 1) - 9/05
Court/Officially Our Son Forever - MAY 31, 2006!!!!!!
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#2 - D?:
Agency received reaccreditation - 12/07
Completed Homestudy - 12/07
I-797C received- 2/08
"Officially waiting" for referral - 3/08
"The call" - registered and invited to travel - 8/15/08
Trip 1 - 9/6 - 9/13/08
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