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Court, we have a written OA agreement which sets out the number of updates and visits required. Some people don't like the written agreements -- I do, because it makes me accountable (not that I wouldn't want to do this stuff, but I am very flaky!) and also I feel that if I am doing what we agreed to, then that's OK (and if we can work out additional stuff too, cool). Otherwise, I think I would feel "stressed" trying to figure out when to have contact/how much, etc...that's just me, though!
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