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This question could be posed as a fill-in-the-blank:
"How Can You Tell if _________ is Sincere?"
...your mechanic
...your significant other
...your 5-year-old's apology
...???
In fact, you could fill in with "the expectant parent."
Most of the time (I believe) in adoption, people are sincere. Sometimes situations change, or people change their minds based on new information or new feelings. This goes for both birth- and adoptive- parents.
It comes down to listening to your own intuition and living with integrity toward all involved. Golden rule, baby, golden rule.
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