Anati-take a deep breath. Try to relax. I know how stressful it is, believe me-I know.
I know you don't want a "lecture", but in SOME cases adoption is a *permanent* solution to a *temporary* problem (finances, school, etc.)
I am not telling you what to do, one way or another. If you decide to go with adoption, I think you will find there is no lack of couples out there who would be more than willing to adopt your child.
I would suggest starting by reading the "birthparent" and "adoptee" boards here, (and while you're at it maybe read the "adoptive parent" boards, too) and getting a firm grip on what adoption means for you and your child.
Although you may not feel this way NOW, if you are going to go through with adoption, you may want to look into finding an "open-adoption" arrangement-where you might at least get updates and pics so you know your child is well and happy.
A lot of places won't even "match" you with a couple until you are much further along in your pregnancy, so you DO have time.
Although it may seem that adoption is the very best thing right now, you may find yourself with regrets later......even in the most stressful circumstances many mothers find themselves wishing they had "given it a go"(raising their child). Again, I know you don't want a lecture, but honestly it could have been me writing your exact words about 2 years ago.
Try not to stress. There are a lot of people here who are open and willing to listen and support you whichever way you decide.
I wish you only the very best of luck.
