So not pass up the chance to meet with your birth mother. I found mine and see wants not contact, it has been almost 2 years since I first located the bmother and her letter of no contact. Since that time I have meet the grandmother, and a few other family members and talk and write them. But my heart breaks each day that I think about her and that I may never get to look into the eyes of my mother. Each and every day we get older and you never know when your time may be up.
I reference to a relationship I have a great Mom, Dad died when I was 10 & stepfather 4 yrs ago. These are my family that I love with all my heart and will always be my parents that no one can replace.
But seeing into the eyes of the one that gave birth to you is something I feel that I need to do. And not of a picture of her, her eyes.
I can remember the first time I looked into my bfathers eyes..and he looked into mine there was a connection there that you can not explain.. But I would not trade that for anything..since in March after only meeting him a couple of time he died.
No I have 3 fathers in heaven looking down & watching over me...just think of their conversations..
So dont not get that chance to see into he eyes at least once in your life you may never get the chance again.
Have a great life
Dana