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Oh. This is so unbearable. But it sounds like your agency is working hard. Learn all that you can about abandonment, and perhaps it is an option that you want to pursue. I understand that it will take much longer. I also appreciate the fact this child will always be a part of your life, even in the very worst case scenario that you do not have the opportunity to adopt her. I am so happy that you are happy with her foster situation.
Let me throw something out. This might be really inappropriate, and I am sure you cannot even think about it now, but I just want to say it. What about considering another referral. And also continuing to work towards bringing Sabrina home. Would you consider the possibility of two children?
I am not willing to accept the idea that you are not meant to be a mother. I know that you and I are the same age. Please don't let go of the dream.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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KC
5/06-8/06 Research
9/15 Signed with Agency!!!! The paperchase begins!
9/25 a princess is born
10/2 Homestudy Application and Police fingerprints
10/3 I600A Mailed
10/18 FBI Fingerprints (No ink!)
11/7 Homestudy Visit
12/13 State Fingerprints
12/14 Homestudy Submitted to USCIS!
12/23 I-171H!
2/6/07 Accepted referral of my beautiful daughter
2/7/07 POA
2/22/07 DNA Authorized by Embassy
3/?/07 DNA came back 96.55%
3/?/07 Family Court
3/25/07 DNA Taken again
4/5 DNA comes back 99.2% - told there is a mutation and yet another sample is taken
4/6 My beautiful mother passes into eternity
4/18 DNA 99.9%
5/11 DNA Test #4 Scheduled... don't ask
5/11 Submitted to PGN
5/30 DNA 99.9% from lab US embassy accepts
6/23-6/30 Visit trip!
7/23 PA!!!
7/26 Back to PGN
August KO
9/6 Re-submit
10/29 Going to foster
11/5 Out of PGN!!!!
11/8 Final b-mom sign off
11/20 Passport
11/21 Orange
12/2 DNA 99.999%
12/10 E-Pink
12/18 Embassy
12/28/07 HOME!!!!!!
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