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Congratulations, Az Sun, first of all!
I have to say that DH and I very much wanted a closed adoption (opposite situation from you) and ended up with a fairly open adoption and I am now very grateful for that. And if your DD's birth mom feels this is the best way for her to handle the situation, obviously I know you will respect that, etc. I am just wondering if it would be possible for you to send a letter to her through the agency just explaining how much you would love to have contact with her some day if and when she is ready and on her terms. Life is so long, and you never know....and if she knows how much you would welcome contact, etc., maybe someday when things are different, she will remember that and reach out.....Good luck!!
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