[keithandkristy]

Our first daughter was in the hospital for about two months, a hogar for about 3 or 4 months, and a foster home for about 1 or 2 months before she came home at 8 months. Because she had some medical issues, she was very loved and received lots of attention. When we picked her up, the nannies at the orphanage referred to her as "Miracle Maria" and just loved on her. Thankfully (& prayerfully), she had no attachment issues and bonded with us very quickly. As a matter of fact, just after three weeks, she started saying "Mama". I will say from day one, and still to this day, she prefers myself over dh for some reason. It breaks his heart quite often.

Our twin daughters just came home a month ago at 6 months old. So far, they are doing well. We're praying they continue to be okay and will have no attachment issues. They were loved and very well taken care of in the hogar. They were in a hogar from day one. I also think it depends on the child. I hope this helps...just wanted to share our experience since most children seem to be in foster care. I thought I would share our story since our children were in hogars.