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Attachment problems
Wow it is so comforting to hear other moms saying the very things I am feeling. We adopted a now 3 year old girl. She came to our house last November & we finalized in March. I feel like my nice happy life is in shreds most of the time. I tried all summer to potty train to no avail. She is back in diapers except for preschool & church. She knew what to do simply refused to do it. I cannot even try potty training right now because it makes me so angry I cannot rationally function on any issue. I am so afraid that we will never connect, that in 13 years or so I will be raising her illegitimate child because she sought love elsewhere because I failed her. It is very hard to connect with a porcupine! Does anyone have any stories with a happy ending?
Kim
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