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who puts up the wall is really something to think about...in my own situation....i think because i found out so late in life (59)...that i am now building a wall against them for not telling me sooner...and i believe my siblings that i was raised with...are very resentful to me now...because "the secret" is out....they resent that...as a result..they wont even talk to me about it...and so i feel alienated from all of them...i am sure they must be shocked and angry and hurt...as i am...but i believe the best thing is to "talk" about it to one another...put our cards and feelings on the table...so to speak...and perhaps the wall wouldnt be able to go up...
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