[traceyk]

I would assume you have been raising your son to be culturally aware and have tought him tolerance so talk to him about it and see what he says. I would also talk to DH's family rather than second guess. That way you know exactly what page they are on. We were a CC family until we adopted our AA "princess" and everything has been great. However she is still young and I am sure there will be obstacles, but we take it one day at a time. And read, read, read about transracial adoptions. I know a lot of people have great book suggestions on here. Good luck!