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Wow I have never heard of a sw saying They are the one's in charge, thats strange. I think I'd ask her supervisor about that one, and why in the world would they NOT want you to get gaurdianship? If you would, that give's him alot more stebility, and here thats what they want.
If you get gaurdianship you have alot more rights, here they see the kids 2 times a year, every 6mths, and you just send in the medical and dentel when you get it done. If you plan on keeping this child forever, then its the way to go, and you should talk to another person about it.
If the sw is the one to make these kinds of decisions then she should be the one to transport the kid to where he needs to go, or what ever it is they decide to do, she should be the one responcible, she can't say yes then expect you to drop everything else to do what she agree's to, and then look, she's to busy to even go? thats a bunch of crap, call the supervisor and see what you can do to get a little more freedom to help this kid.
I have always been able to do what I wanted, I just had to let the worker know. They always said I had the kids 24/7 so I knew what they needed better then they did. So this just shocks me.
Let us know what happens, and hang in there!
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